I just read something today...it was published several months ago, but that is the story of my life; I always seem to be running late.
Anyway, it is from someone else's blog and it says exactly what I've been thinking for years, but could never put into words. This guy has it right. http://www.danoah.com/2011/11/im-christian-unless-youre-gay.html
And it's not all about the homosexuality question, it's just as he says: too many people feel justified hating anyone who is different from them, and I'm sure we've all been on both sides, receiving the hate for some reason and dispensing it too.